Skip navigation! Story from Sex Tips. The way most people talk about oral sex , it sounds pretty simple. You either lick someone's vulva or suck their penis and that's all there is to it. But once you really start giving head, no matter what body part you're going down on, you discover that there's so much more to it than licking and sucking.
How to Talk to Your Wife or Girlfriend about Oral Sex
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Whether you love it or hate it, you almost definitely have an opinion about giving oral sex. And if you're like many women, you might even love it and hate it at the same time. Getting to the heart of the matter with oral sex is complex, because there's more than just physical sensations in play — there's also a complicated power dynamic at work. Sometimes, the person on the receiving end of oral sex is being pleasured, but also feels very vulnerable; meanwhile the giver, though performing an act that usually won't provide them with any direct physical pleasure, holds almost of the power in the situation. But other times, that power dynamic is reversed — especially when women feel obligated to perform oral sex on their partners, even though they're not actually that interested. These are just a handful of the reasons why oral sex may one of the most emotionally complicated sex acts around.
Christian Oral Sex: Is it moral?
Oral stimulation can be part of a moral, healthy and loving sexuality within marriage. As my general article about Christian sex discusses, there are some basic Catholic guidelines for sex within marriage. They help us understand and live the Christian call to holiness in married life.
What does the Bible say about? The husband should give to his wife her conjugal rights, and likewise the wife to her husband. For the wife does not have authority over her own body, but the husband does. Likewise the husband does not have authority over his own body, but the wife does.